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Potiphar’s Wife
Bored to Distraction
Genesis 39: 7-23
The bored wife. The hired man. It happened some thirty-five centuries ago, and still the story has the power to take our breath away at the audacity of a woman who though she could ignore her marriage vows and graze at greener pastures, she didn’t even have a name. She was simply known as Potiphar’s wife.
What Lessons Can We Learn from Mrs. P?
We gotta stay on our toes.
We never know when temptation will arrive at our doorsteps. We can’t assume that because we’re happily married or content in our singleness that we can’t be tempted.
“Be very careful then, how you live...not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.
Ephesians 5:15-16
It’s smart to surround ourselves with support.
Mrs. P sent the servants away. Bad move. Let’s leave the office door open when we meet with a male coworker etc... Making sure we are appropriately dressed. Married to an earthly husband or a heavenly one, our motto should be: Never leave home without him foremost in our hearts and minds.
“Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.” Ephesians 6:11
Let’s seek out our husbands before not after.
If movie stars and paperback heroes can fill our minds with images that don’t honor God or our husbands, suppose we find those men of ours in the kitchen, the garage, wherever… wrap our arms around their broad shoulders and whisper the same words that Mrs. P first said to Joseph. If you’re married to the man, it’s not only legal, it’s biblical! Your husband will undoubtedly be delighted with your invitation, however unexpected it may be. If your single, remember your commitment to God.
When we stumble, confession beats a cover-up.
How easy it is to blame someone else when we’re tempted to sin. It’s “his” fault, “her” fault, or when all else fails, it’s God’s fault. Potiphar may not have seen through his wife’s lies, but the Lord we love looks straight into our hearts. Instead of going for a cover-up, let’s confess and repent.
“Save me, O Lord, from lying lips and from a deceitful tongue.” Psalms 120:2
Thoughts Worth Considering
1.Was Potiphar at all to blame for his wife’s wandering eye? If so, how did he fail her? What could she have done to garner his attention?
2. How can we fill our idle time (if you have any) with appropriate thoughts? Are there specific things you need to avoid, such as certain movies? Internet sights? Make a commitment to steer clear of those things that are a risk to your spiritual growth.
3. What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned from the tragic timeless story of Potiphar’s wife?
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